An 'incident' happen

It only takes three days for an 'incident' to happen. It seems like putting a horny man together with a widow inside a small accommodation tends to increase the risk of such a thing happening. Of course, since you've been strict with the 'no pillage no ****' policy, with the perpetrator risking **** or worse, castration, your army has been well-behaved, i.e. relieving their urge by themselves or with each other. While a priest would have called for the 'people of Sodom' to punished severely, currently there's no priest in the army so you look the other way. Alas, how could you have foreseen such a thing; after all, you're only thinking of the widows' welfare when you implement the plan, right?

Quickly, you gather everyone involved to hold an informal inquiry, deeming that a disciplinary proceeding will be held if necessary since you don't want to attract negative perception from everyone. After getting a translated testimony from the widow that it was a consensual act, or as later told by Dobra the widow was actively seducing the helpless soldier, you judge that the soldier is to take responsibility if anything happens. But since you're a magnanimous ruler, you offer the to marry both of them if they're willing, with the kingdom covering his dowry and wedding feast.

Between the promise of more sex and the kingdom subsiding his marriage, the soldier never stood a chance.

You decide to hold the marriage ceremony in two months time after you return from the kingdom. Of course, since this marriage is between two people with different religions and customs, it wouldn't be presided by a priest but instead a kingdom official since you don't want any unnecessary friction. For the first one, you decide to do it when the time comes, reminding yourself to eschew convoluted traditions in favor of practicality since you don't want to involved in such a long ceremony similar to your coronation.

To your 'surprise', the announcement triggers eleven more 'incidents'. That means you have to marry off at least twelve of them, if the remaining five manage to hold up. Woe is you. This must have caused you endless frustration that you have to take it out on the Vetrix widow every night.