Inquire about how things would work politically

You want to be clear about the conditions of such a weight venture. "So, your kingdom-" "Would be ruled personally by me, yes. You would be my king consort, and I queen consort to you in your lands. Providing that we have a healthy heir, he or she would rule both under a personal union upon our deaths or abdications." She clasps her hands formally, looking at you with intense gravity. "Would you be staying here?" you ask, trying to get the details down. She nods. "Yes. Theoretically, we would each spend the majority of our time in our own respective realms, meeting only for the most important of matters. And the creation of heirs" she says flatly. You can't help but perk up at the thought of "the creation of heirs" with the amazing beauty, even if she is a bit lacking in personality. You nod again slowly, but she seems to detect your uncertainty. "If it is the everyday occupancy of your bed that you are worried about, I don't care if you have rolls in the hay with the palace sluts" You hold up your hands defensively. "Hey, that's not what-" She just rolls her eyes, looking unimpressed. "Yes yes, I'm sure you are a beacon of chastity. Honestly, I do not care. Such is the norm in my homeland. I, however, have little interest in the pleasures of the flesh, and would not mind my load being alleviated. Whore yourself out if you will, but" she says, voice and look becoming equally intense, "do not even think of involving the products in the succession. My offer is already abundantly generous. Don't push your luck, or I will be **** to take matter into my own hands." You feel goosebumps, and it's not from the inescapable cold. Looking into the icy blue of her eyes, you believe her both willing and capable of doing what she hints at. You wonder if you could link yourself to her, despite the attractiveness of her offer.

"I have lain my position out on the table, good king. What is your response?" she acts with the same dispassionate tone you've come to expect. It's a tempting, if complicated offer. Her worst quality is her personality, and it seems the offer would grant you a good deal of freedom from said personality, not to mention the rest...