No, it isn't right

You can't do something like this. You're here trying to get married, not go wenching! "I'm sorry," you say, "but I can't do this. Go back to Jan and tell him that I can't go around with other women while I'm pursuing someone." Her face drops; she must have been pretty excited. Still, she follows directions and walks away sadly. You close the door and get back in bed, butterflies in your stomach. This may tank your chance with Sonya, but you won't compromise on your values.