Um… can I be neither?

Yeah sure, if you want. You might miss out on a few paths later down the line, but being sexless is technically an option.

*Ahem* You’re a sexless individual named John Doe. You live a normal life, albeit a very lustful one. You wake up, get dressed, eat some food, go about your day, etc.. But when you woke up today, no one else was around. Everyone’s gone. No one to fuck or lust after, but also no one to hold you back.