You use Dobra

Other than your outlet for night time lust, and perhaps, the mother to your first bastard, Dobra has been very useful. Even though she is a woman, and therefore doesn't wield the influence a man has, especially in the tribe’s decision making process, she has that other connections. She also possesses the intimate knowledge of the tribe’s internal politics and the personal motivation to ensure your reign succeeds for the sake of her current and future children.

You should establish an informal tribal group where Dobra serves as your right hand. Her role is not merely symbolic; she acts as your voice to the barbarians. Beyond normal meeting, she helps ton xplain your decrees in the tribal tongue, framing your laws not as "foreign impositions" but as necessary steps for the tribe’s survival. By the same token, she brings to you their complaints, allowing you to come up with something to reduce the likelihood of a another violent rebellion.

Between those big tasks, you manage to breed the widow with your bastard, giving you intense pleasure and satisfaction.

One night, after you satiate using her, you relaxed languidly as you rub her belly.

"What is your future plan, Your Majesty? I can't imagine you will remain here forever."

"True. I have to go back. But I need someone here to look for your people. So that they are looked after."

"So they wouldn't rebel."

"That as well."

​"You should get the cooperation of Kaelen."

"The deputy?" That makes sense. Vetrix’s deputy represents the greatest threat to your stability, as he likely commands the lingering loyalty of the surviving warriors. On the flip side, Kaelen can be your most capable enforcer if you can convice him.