The answer is NO.

"No way," you tell him. "I need sex. I am happy to give you as much sex as you want. I WANT to give you as much sex as you want. But if you start going else where for it, then you'll have none left for me."

"Lots of men have mistresses and get sex with other women. It happens all the time. Hell, half of my colleagues have sex with two, three, or even four different women a month."

But you stand your ground.

"Well, first I bet that's all just bragging and not actually happening, second that's just your statement, there's no actual hard data to back that up. But finally, it doesn't matter to me what your colleagues are doing. All that matters to me is what happens in our marriage, and I will not allow you to randomly go out screwing other women."

Kurt thinks for a while.

"Maybe we can think of another solution then?