No

John felt that Nyasia was trying to snub him, without directly admitting to it. He was upset, and decided to have it out with her.

Dear Nyasia,

I sent you an invitation to a restaurant of your choice. You can choose the date, time, and place. But I feel like you're trying to snub me. You didn't give a direct yes, or no answer but suggested a coffee shop instead. Were not going to a coffee shop for our first date.

Now, my original invitation is still open. If you want to accept it, then do so. If you don't want to go out with me, just say so. I'll accept your decision. But you need to make it.

If I don't hear back from you within 48 hours I'll assume you're not interested.

John