No

You raised your hands, "Look, I've got nothing against you personally. but I don't know you and I've gotta be honest, when you looked into my window, I thought it wasn't worth the risk of getting harmed in the future to get with you. I thought it would be better not to confront you about this directly, a more indirect approach seemed viable, but evidently I was mistaken."

She tilted her head, "C'mon, you know I would never hurt you as long as you're good, right?"

"I'm doubtful I could consistently meet your expectations for being 'good' even if trying as hard as I could. But even if I could, you might misinterpret something in a similar way to this case and react explosively without giving me a chance to explain. I mean, you broke into my house with a hammer."

"Come now, did you really think you had a choice in the matter?"