Ignore them

You decide not to bring it up, so your wife can get as comfortable as possible without a seat. More men gather around the bar for 'refills', gradually getting bolder as they ogle her. The bartender however, makes no complaint since the sudden increase in customers ordering drinks was only good for business. Besides, he got a splendid view of Ada's exposed cleavage and big, soft bosom to energize him while he worked. Life was good.

You finish your drinks in comfortable silence, and enjoy your evening together before heading home. Ada is more than happy to leave, eager to finally get out of her pesky heels and get into bed.