The Weekend

It was a few days later, on a weekend, when we were having lunch on the patio. Just a simple salad, as we watched various critters roam about our garden.

“I got the report.” Maris said abruptly. A knowing look from me prompted a continuation, “About the cakes I contacted. I found three that I, personally, find the most exciting. I’ve got some basic physical descriptors, including what I gathered of their personality. I also made sure I got some good info on not only what they like and do not like, but why they like and do not like those things.” Maris handed me a set of sheets of paper. Each woman was given three or four pages of information, with plenty of white space for my own notes.

I was going to go inside to review them, but I knew Maris would want to see my reactions. There was (abridged for brevity):

Rachel, 25, IndianPhysical Description: Thin, with slender breasts. Dark skin, dark brown hair, and extremely pretty green eyes.

Likes: Physical domination, either her or her partner. Biggest kink is domination loss, where one person is in a dominant position, but then loses their power either physically or mentally, to their partner. On a physical perspective, loves a struggle, being able to use her whole body and really reef on something/someone.

Turn offs: Emotional fakery, hates the idea that someone is not being “honest”, either deliberately lying, or trying to appease someone else. Not a big fan of receiving oral.

Personality: Somewhat funny, uses very casual language. She’s not that experienced, either with sleeping with married partners or sex in general, but seems to be enthusiastic. Didn’t quite “get” what I was asking for, even if I was extremely explicit.

Atlanta, 31, Greek

Physical description: A bit shorter, but with larger hips and breasts. Somewhat tanned, with short dark hair.

Likes: Worshipping someone, even just for a scene. Likes following someone’s lead, but really likes when she can anticipate their wants and desires. Doesn’t really have any physical turn ons, she derives most of her pleasure from the mental aspect. When pressed, Maris found out Atlanta rarely masturbates.

Dislikes: Having someone worship her, or really focus on her at all. Also really hates feet and anything else that is “smelly”, though with an exception for genitalia.

Personality: A real extrovert. Her sexual likes are clearly influenced by her personality. Maris made a special note of how much Atlanta loved the idea that Maris herself was into this. Really loved love, and loved making people happy.

Daisy, 44, Caucasian

Physical description: Basically, a MILF. Tall, voluptuous, and extremely intimidating. Honestly reminds me of Maris, even though she is twice Maris’s age. Very short, bobbed, silver hair.

Likes: Very much prefers femdom. Openly bisexual. Loves the idea of dominating someone and taking them both mentally and physically. Likes to be in control at all times, and loves facesitting.

Dislikes: Someone who doesn’t resist. An overly eager partner is seen as cloying or childlike. If there’s no struggle on her part, there’s no excitement. Also dislikes anal in all its forms, on her or anyone else. Maris wondered if there was some sort of baggage behind these claims, but didn’t want to make any definitive statements.

Personality: Really enjoyed how direct and explicit I was in my questioning. Also tried to make it clear that her real personality wasn’t as demanding or, in her words, mean as what she enjoyed in sex. Seemed almost apologetic, although Maris wasn’t sure if she was apologising for being too mean during sex or not mean enough outside of sex.

Maris was watching me carefully, examining all the various macro and micro expressions I was making. Of course I never intended to not share what I was thinking, but I also understood sometimes a person often isn’t able to articulate what they want, and observation is often the best way to determine those things.

“I see you like Daisy the most, at least from a visual perspective.” Maris saying that kind of shocked me a bit. I like to think that I viewed physical attractiveness as somewhat irrelevant. All three women were certainly attractive, and I would hardly be able to rank them in any way.

“Wait, how did you know?” I was genuinely curious. I know Maris didn’t care for those “body language experts” that tried to break down physical language into some sort of science. That being said, we have been together for at least 10 years by now.

“You looked back up to her three times. The other women you only did that once. You also spent about twice as long looking at her picture than any other woman. But, you also looked at me for a mere moment.” Maris looked slightly proud, either at her deduction of my desires, or that she confirmed it because I also looked at her, and she knew I found her attractive.

“Huh,” I looked over the three women once more, “I mean, I guess you’re right. All of them are hot, but I think Daisy is the most attractive. Of course, that’s not really a big deal, like fourth or fifth priority.”

Maris perked up when I mentioned the priorities. She always liked being able to understand how and why people thought the way they did. I had to interject a bit, “I don’t mean that literally, I haven’t itemized my priorities. I just think that certain aspects like personality and likes/dislikes are more important. Maybe I’m also somewhat downplaying how much importance I place on appearance, as merely having that as a preference is seen as shallow.”

“Anyways,” I got back on track, “I need to look over these again to formulate exactly what I want to do. I really appreciate how much you did for this, Maris, and I’ll probably get back to you by... let’s call it Monday evening.”