Talk with John about it first

You take your husband aside for a minute to discuss the new development.

“What are you thinking?” He asked “I know you really wanted to go to this place.”

“That was before I knew about the sex!” You replied

“I mean it’s not like we haven’t done stuff like this before. Remember your birthday party?”

“That was with our friends, people we knew!”

“Well if we’re going to live here then these people are gonna be our friends too. Besides, if they’ve been doing this stuff for years then it’s gotta work. And I saw you eyeing up the neighbors on our way in too.”

He wasn’t wrong. Everyone was pretty attractive here, even the older members.

“Let’s…” you say, taking a second to confirm with yourself what you were about to agree to “let’s stay, at least for two weeks. If we can survive one week being free use and a regular week afterwards then we’ll stay. If not we leave.”

“Deal.” John said