Take it slow--you don't want to frighten her off

You return the hug, but move your hips away slightly, making sure she doesn't notice just how hard she's made you--yet.

"You know it's my pleasure to have you use our pool any time," you smile as you break the hug. "Suzy and I are really going to miss you when you're gone; you brighten up our days!"

"That's so sweet!" she purrs. "And where is Suzy? Is she joining us?"

"Oh she's out of town on business," you reply. "It happens from time to time. And where's your boyfriend? Isn't he going to join us today?"

You're actually not certain she has a boyfriend, but she has brought a male friend over to the pool in recent weeks, and they seem particularly close.