She Tells Him About Everything. Absolutely Everything.

Since then, weekly or bi-weekly visits to his office had become part of your routine as a couple. You went with her every time, even though you got the impression she was getting comfortable enough to go on her own. She learned that it was a safe place where she could unbottle all the fears and anxieties from her everyday life.

You were surprised to learn, at a later point, that your marital problems in the bedroom were one of the topics that they broached. Your wife told you how helpful she’d found her conversation with him on the subject to be. In this respect too, though, he proved an effective listener. Your wife recounted some bedroom tricks that he suggested, although you’d been too embarrassed to actually try putting them into practice.

You’d dwelled on that conversation a few times. It was actually somewhat embarrassing that he knew {if Male = true}you weren’t satisfying her in the bedroom.{endif}{if Female = true}about your frustrations in the bedroom. Had he truly listened to her recounting of your sex lives together without having any pervy-male thoughts? It was the smallest of violations.{endif} Still, you didn’t dwell on it. He was her therapist. It was his job to hear about the things your wife was struggling with. Why wouldn’t that include her sexual dissatisfaction?

However, those thoughts took on a new life the moment your wife told you that she was eager to sleep with him. It had been one thing when she was just his patient. It was something else entirely if she were sleeping with him. He’d know her wants and desires, as well as your sexual failures, with a shocking level of intimacy.