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Comment 1:

Top-level comment by 72mikehawkins62

745 points

2 days ago

INFO: Why did you wait a few minutes after your husband stormed out before calling him?

Second-level comment by lovetherapist_throwaway

47 points

2 days ago

So I wanted to call him as soon as Adrian was finished, but then after he pulled out he decided to grab my tongue and use it to clean all the cum and pussy juice off his dick. face with rolling eyes It took a few minutes for him to finish wiping all the little crevices at the base and under his foreskin and stuff and the whole time I was screaming in my head like dude!!! Come on!!! rolling on the floor laughing Anyway afterward he agreed that was thoughtless of him and apologized for using my tongue instead of my hair or a towel or my boobs or something. He says he's texted Brian an apology for the same thing but it doesn't seem to have helped.

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Comment 2:

Top-level comment by RhinoDinoWino

1.8k points

2 days ago

E-S-H. You're right that he's overreacting and it's out of line for him to demand you stop being friends with Adrian. However, the emotions he's feeling are totally valid. It was duplicitous of you to hide Adrian's **** hobby, and your assistance, from Brian. In your post you say that you "weren't really hiding it" and instead were just banking on it never coming up. I call that lying by omission. If you knew your partner would have wanted to know about this activity you and Adrian liked to participate in, you should have told him about it. If you were worried he would react badly, you could have done something else to soften the blow. "Hey honey, here's your favorite dinner and your favorite wine, by the way I'm Adrian's cumrag." Alternatively, you could have sought out the advice of a relationship counselor and broken the news to him during a session. Frankly I think you underestimated your partner. It sounds like you and him had established a good system for dealing with his insecurities related to Adrian, and I don't see why Brian would have taken the news that Adrian enjoys using your body without your consent any worse than the news that he enjoys coming over and watching movies with you.

My advice? Give him time to process the anger and calm down. Hopefully he'll be able to settle into a more rational mode of thinking and work with you to find a path to forgiveness and trust that doesn't require you to cut off your best friend, or cut off your best friend's access to your holes. If he can come to accept a reasonable compromise then you can work on regaining his trust, and if he can't, unfortunately that will be the end of the relationship and you'll just have to do better in the next one.

Second-level comment by lovetherapist_throwaway

1.7k points

2 days ago

You're right pensive face I was dreading the whole "Adrian's dick has been inside me more than yours has" conversation so much that I convinced myself it would be **** to not have it. None of this would have happened if I had just sat down and talked with him about this ahead of time, but now I'm scared it's too late for me to do anything.

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Comment 3:

Top-level comment by ethanol_eclipsed

523 points

2 days ago

N-T-A. Your partner has a pattern of trying to disrupt your relationship with your best friend, and is obviously viewing this as an opportunity to cut you off from him. Trying to isolate you from your social circle is a huge red flag, as is dragging out an argument across two days over a simple misunderstanding. I understand that seeing his partner getting drilled by some other guy was a shock to him, but this is a massive overreaction, especially now that you've had a chance to explain that it was **** rather than sex. Does he have a history of being excessively argumentative or trying to get you to push away your friends?

Second-level comment by lovetherapist_throwaway

336 points

2 days ago

Nooo I swear he's normally so good to me loudly crying face We've gotten into some minor tiffs over how much time I spend with Adrian but usually he's upfront that it's his own insecurity talking and he feels better as long as I spend plenty of time with him too.

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Comment 4:

Top-level comment by 1scoy2scoy3scoy4scoy

422 points

2 days ago

INFO: I'm having trouble understanding what the layout of your living room was like. How was your partner able to see Adrian's penis but not your face?

Second-level comment by lovetherapist_throwaway

1.3k points

2 days ago

So our living room has kind or a weird layout. Basically the living room is slightly raised, and there's a small staircase you have to go up right after entering. Our couch is pointed away from the front door but is angled slightly toward it, so as you enter you're looking toward our armless sofa. Adrian was fucking me in the missionary position, he was on his knees at the edge of the sofa and I had my legs spread out and sticking up in the air to make it easier for him to **** himself on me. EDIT : Apparently the position we were in is called the "eagle position." It looked just like this picture (https://sexpositions.club/positions/163.html) except my legs were sticking straight up in the air.

[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: A figure drawing of two mostly-featureless humans having vaginal sex, one female rendered in yellow and one male rendered in fuchsia. The female figure is lying on her back, her legs sticking straight up, her knees folded near her chest. The man is nearly horizontal above the female figure, face-to-face, thrusting straight down into her. End description.]

When Brian walked in he was basically looking right at Adrian's back, so he would have had a perfect view of Adrian's penis plowing directly down into my vagina over and over. Here's a diagram of how the living room is laid out, and here’s one showing the view Brian would have seen when he first walked into the living room.

Third-level comment by tiddlydink777

1.4k points

2 days ago

The diagram LMAO

Fourth-level comment by lovetherapist_throwaway

502 points

2 days ago

OMG shut upppp angry face with horns i'm not an artist okay.

(Diagram 1)

[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: An extremely crudely drawn diagram depicting the layout of a living room from a bird’s eye view. The front door is in the lower left, entering into a sunken area and facing directly toward a small staircase leading up to the living room’s main floor. At the top of the small staircase is a circle labelled “Brian.” The living room contains a square labelled “chair” in the upper left, a rectangle labelled “shelf” on the right, and a line labelled “TV,” roughly in the upper-right corner, facing the staircase. There is a diagonally-oriented rectangle labelled “sofa” In the center of the living room, in between the small staircase and the TV,. On the sofa there is an extremely poorly rendered drawing of a human figure lying overtop another figure with its legs in the air. The figures are labelled “Adrian and me.” The right side of the room is segregated from the rest of the diagram with a line that terminates near the bottom. This segment is labelled “hallway to rest of house." End description.]

(Diagram 2)

[IMAGE DESCRIPTION: A crudely drawn image depicting the layout of the living room as seen from the perspective of a person standing at the top of the entrance staircase. The banister for the entrance stairway is on the lower left side of the image. The spindles are poorly rendered and of inconsistent width. The TV, represented by a rectangle inside of another slightly larger rectangle, is on the upper right, facing the viewer. A badly-proportioned sofa rendered using only ovals and rectangles is in the center of the image. On top of the sofa there are two human figures drawn with rough, unsteady linework, one atop the other, both facing away from the viewer. The upper figure is sitting on his knees, torso and head just visible above his rear, with the most prominent parts of his anatomy being a pair of testicles and a proportionally oversized penis thrusting down into the lower figure’s vagina. The lower figure is lying face-up on the sofa beneath the male figure. Her legs are sticking up in the air and spread very wide apart, knees bent with a dot at the center of her rear representing her anus and the upper figure’s penis entering her vagina. End description.]

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Comment 5:

Top-level comment by mamalittlefirtree

230 points

2 days ago

I’m not sure how to judge this one but I just want to say it’s really sweet how you’re so supportive of Adrian’s hobby! :) It’s cute how you keep track of little things like what kind of people he likes to **** and how hard his penis is.

Second-level comment by lovetherapist_throwaway

201 points

2 days ago

thank you! smiling face with halo Our other friends always tease me for how I’m always helping him with his hobby. They call me his “accomplice!” beaming face with smiling eyes I really don’t mind it though. I know how much joy he gets from it. Like, sometimes we’ll be walking down the street and I’ll see a lady with a HUGE butt and he’ll totally miss it. When I point her out to him I’m like, wow, if I hadn’t been here he would never have seen that ass, let alone buried his dick in it! It feels like an accomplishment, you know? Like I made his life measurably better. As for his hardness, well, that’s not hard to notice. (And it’s certainly not a little thing! grinning squinting face) The only penises I’ve ever seen are Brian’s and Adrian’s, so I know that small penises get really hard easily while really big ones usually only get kinda hard. So when Adrian pulls his penis out in front of me without asking and it’s rock-hard, that’s a really obvious sign that he’s way hornier than usual, which is saying something. Honestly it makes me feel kinda bad. Like, damn, he used to have to just wait for those massive, hard-as-diamond erections to just go away by themselves? Ugh! It’s really gratifying seeing (and feeling, and tasting) him use them to engage in a constructive hobby.