Samantha says some people are into watching their partners

So?” Samantha says. You can see that she’s more than a little tipsy. “Some people are into watching their partners.”

“Do you like watching Jimmy kiss other girls?” you ask.

“Hardly!” Samantha says quickly and loudly. She would never let her husband make out with another woman. Then more quietly, “He’s the one who would want to watch.”

You ask her what she means and she explains, reluctantly at first and then with more energy, that her husband often talks about his fantasy of sharing her.

“I don’t even think he’d want to join in – just watch,” she say like it’s a confession.

“And what do you think about this fantasy,” you ask.

She shrugs.