For now, you devise a temporary solution

You have an idea for how you can meet the girl. You found out by looking through your family's old documents that her name is likely Kesa, and that she is a Magyar who fled to your realm with her family as a child, running from nomadic raiders. On another outing to the fields you are able to find her. With great difficulty and a lot of luck you manage to get to her in private, behind a large tree near the fields. You call her Kesa, and she nods happily at you. You know very little Magyar, and she very little Almain, but at length you manage to bridge the gap and communicate your plan. You will meet her here in the fields at night. You cannot bring a torch, otherwise you would be seen. Instead, you will howl like wolves to find one another in secret, without drawing undue attention. That is how you shall hide your affair. She kisses and hugs you excitedly at various points as you explain your plan, pushing her soft breasts in your face.

You break away before she kills you with kindness and you shoo her back to her duties. You return to your own, anxiously awaiting nightfall. You get a lot done that day despite your horniness, and you don't think anyone suspects you. As nightfall comes, you slip out of the castle into the almost pitch black, guided only by the faint lights from the distant torches of your watchmen. You prepare your throat for your best wolf imitation.