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"Sure." She nods "I hoped for something like that when I asked the question about fucking a cousin." She pauses a bit and adds "But I am quite worried by that fantasy of yours. I'm interested in you because you are caring and gentle, but now you show dominating tendencies.... I simply hate when guys get rough. After all the jerks I've dealt with, I want to be cared about. If you really like me then give me the perfect romantic evening. Impress me and maybe we'll enjoy some sexy time together."

"Any guidelines on that perfect date? " You ask, not knowing how to start.

"No, if you like me, then you'll guess. If you don't, I won't be helping you to get into my pants." She says bluntly.

"But I've never had a successful romantic date, my last attempt a year ago failed as always and I abandoned trying" you complain.

"So you tried to get some girls and failed? " Sara inquires "You must have failed miserably, because when girls go on a date with guys like you, they should have some trouble resisting you. Maybe I need to give you some hints after all. How did you screw up your chances?"

"Simple" you sigh "It all ended in the same 'It was a great evening, you are so nice and cute, let's stay friends' way." You lower your head, "So I expect that if anything, that It'll come to that with you and end that way. Especially considering that we are cousins."

"Hm" Sara spent several seconds analyzing your words "Let me guess, after all those failures you imagined how you fuck them roughly and treat them like sluts afterwards?"

"Yes" You admit with a little shame in your voice.

"Now I see your problem. You are suppressing your alpha male. No wonder girls don't want you. Let your inner man out!"

"Do you suggest I start slapping their asses, groping their tits and stuff like that? I doubt that'll work. And haven't you been asked out on a romantic date? If you don't like rudeness why do you think other girls would?"

"No rudeness silly. We, girls need to feel desired. If you'll hide that, we'll never notice. Sure, you shouldn't act like a horny jerk, but if you act like you're gay, you'll never get laid. It's all about balance, understood?" She is using a tone you would use to explain something to a five year old.

"Yes, I think I understand what you wanted to say" You answer sounding somewhat insulted.

"Let's get back to the topic, regarding the date. I...."