"I changed my mind"

"I changed my mind. I won't go on a date with you becau..." She says looking straight into your eyes.

"Great" you interrupt her. "Well, thank you for at least rejecting me now, and not after...."

"I didn't finish! " She interrupts you right back, raising her voice "And never mumble like that again! You are a man, not a boy. I said that I won't date you because you need to choose a sweeter target, go, invite her to a date, seduce her on the first evening and make her scream of pleasure, I know you can. Just do what I said, be pro-active."

"Care to name a target? I don't see any around." You answer even more insulted, but her mentoring tone.

"It's not hard. Take any of Lexi's friends. Young, sweet teens, what can be better for your first time? Older cousins suck compared to that."

"Sure, Good idea." You answer with all sarcasm you can muster "They despise me, they taunt me, they call me a pervert and yet you expect that they'll agree. And I have you forgotten that I want my first time to be with someone I trust? Someone who will not laugh at my inexperience?"

"Just don't use the 'I'm a virgin, please show some mercy and let me fuck you' pick up line then! No one will ever notice that it's your first time if you don't say anything about it first, you guys don't have hymens! Also. I doubt that Lexi's friends are more experienced than you. Stop being a coward or else you'll limit yourself to jerking off forever"

"I'm fed up!" You answer angrily turning to the door "I have no desire to hear more insults."

She grabs your hand "John, don't be stupid. I want to help. You're a great guy and don't understand how we girls think. When I was 18 years old I'd have killed for an older boyfriend with your looks and your BMW. You just need the right approach. Be bold, not a sissy with stupid **** fantasies like you are."

You pull your hand away and storm away to your car... You are pissed by everything that she said, especially by the form she used, but maybe she is right? You wonder, maybe you should try to act in a more bold way?