Option: An Online Dom

While you’d never spoken to the man before, what sort of sexual relationship he'd want with your wife was clear. According to your wife, the two had met each other online. He had a presence on various message boards and chat servers where he was regarded as an experienced and knowledgeable BDSM Dominant.

You recalled a day, perhaps a year back, when Kaori had come to you, asking if you’d object to her signing up for a BDSM message board. She'd explained that her rationale was nothing too scandalous. She just wanted to look around and to learn. She swore up and down that she wouldn't do anything untoward with anyone there.

“Please? Darling, please? It's just, you know, a curiosity thing. I used to look at stuff like that sometimes back in school sometimes. But, you know me. I'd never, like, do anything. You know I only have eyes for you..."

You were unsure how to respond at the time. Hardcore BDSM wasn’t a kink that you’d ever felt much interest in. Still, you knew your wife had her interests, and you were hoping it might help her feel a little more fulfilled. So you have her your assent.