They want to join them

The three stewardesses all say to us "Can we join in on your fun times with each other since we all really need to get laid soon since our husbands never give us any attention at home when we are home please."

That makes me confused as to what just happened which leads me to whisper in Julia's ear saying "I do not know about this Julia since I do want to continue what we were doing before, but not with the stewardesses joining on the fun which could ruin it for both of us." She then gives me an understanding nod from what I just whispered in her ear for which leads her to tell the stewardesses something.

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