Hand Job (Hers)

Anatomy Of The Vulva
Vulva- The outer female genitalia as a whole.
Mons Pubis- The mound of the vulva which divide into the labia major.
Labia Majora - The two outer rounded folds of tissue that lie on either side of the vagina.
Labia Minora- The two inner folds of skin within the cleft of the labia majora.
Clitoris- A sensitive erectile organ at the anterior part of the vulva
Vagina- A passage leading from the opening of the vulva to the cervix.
Urethral Sponge- A sensitive cushion of tissue that sits against the front wall of the vagina.
Perineal Sponge- A sensitive cushion of tissue and that sits between the vaginal opening and rectum.
Cervix- A narrow portion of the uterus where it joins with the vagina.
Perineum- A sensitive area between the vulva and the anus.

Vulva
Pat Vulva
Rub Vulva and Mons
Squeeze Vulva and Mons
Squeeze Vulva and Mons and Rub Together
Slap Vulva
Sniff Vulva

Clitoris
Flicker Finger Against Clitoris
Pinch and Rub Clitoris Between Fingers
Pinch and Roll Clitoris Between Fingers
Rub Fingers In Circles Around Clitoris
Thump Clitoris

Vagina
Finger Vagina
Fist Vagina
Rub Lower Wall Of Vagina
Rub Lower Wall Of Vagina With Thumb In Anus
Rub Upper Wall Of Vagina
Rub Upper Wall Of Vagina While Rubbing Clitoris With Thumb

The Erogenous Zones

The Inner Thigh

Caress and rub this area to warm her up, especially the small area between the outer labia and the thigh where the leg ends which can be gently massaged to tease her.

The Vulva

The vulva is everything external that you can see. The outer part of the vulva is the outer labia and what gives women that camel toe look in certain clothing. Inside that is the inner labia or lips. The degree to which the lips stick out differs from woman to woman depending on genetics, age, and sexual experience. Just above at the top of the lips is the clitoral hood and clitoris. The clitoral hood allows some protection to the clitoris, when aroused the clitoris will extend slightly out of the hood. The clitoris is not just a button to be pressed. Play with the top and the sides as well. Some women prefer stimulation of one side or the other more. Most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Similar to the head of the penis, after orgasm stimulation to the clitoris can be painful.

The Vagina

Pretty much self-explanatory, it’s where the penis goes and even a blind man can find it, the two most desirable spots of the vagina to stimulate or the “G spot” and the Perineal Sponge. Though there is debate rather or not if the G spot is real what can be found here for sure is the Ureteral sponge. To stimulate this area simply run your fingers along the inside of her vagina is if trying to touch her belly button. If the g spot is there you’re sure to hit it. The perineal Sponge sits between the vagina and the rectum just above the perineum. Both areas become engorged with blood during sexual arousal and some women may find this area enjoyable to stimulate as well. While the added stimulation may increase the sensation very few women actually experience orgasm through vaginal stimulation.

Tips

Lube It Up

While some women may prefer dry outer stimulation if your fingers or going in her you may want to have some lube on hand. Pun intended.

Eye Contact

Watch her and read her body language. Try and gauge what she likes.

Talk to Her

While most guys prefer dirty talk some women tend to prefer a more smooth tongue. Compliment and flatter her. Ask her if she likes what you or doing. Unless she likes it when you talk dirty.

Nail Care

Keep your fingernails clipped and well taken care of, a manicure may not be a bad idea. Short trim nails feel better especially if going inside.

Slow and Steady

Girls or in it for the long haul and take longer to warm up, this is a marathon not a dash be gentle and take your time. Don’t go straight for the clit or try to finger her if she isn’t stimulated properly it can be painful for her.

Going Numb

If your hand gets tired you can always go to oral to finish her off or bring out the toys.

Massage not Jab

When inserting fingers into her quickly jabbing them in and out does very little to stimulate her, instead press them against the inner wall of the vagina to create the feeling of fullness. Up or down works best.

Follow the Leader

Have her masturbate for you, watch her and see what she likes, or have her place her hand over yours and guide you.

Just Getting Started

While a hand job for a guy ends when the guy ejaculates for a girl it can be just the beginning and is a great way to warm her up before sex.

Tricks

The Tease

Run both hands up along the insides of the thighs along the crevice where the legs meet the vulva along what would be the lower bikini line without applying direct pressure.

The Cup

Place entire hand over vulva and massage gently stimulating all areas this is a good way to get things started and can be done while she is still dressed to tease her.

The Pinch

Pinch the top of the outer labia together and massage. This massages the clit between her own vulva without direct stimulation. Can also be done by pinching the clitoral hood and rubbing it between the fingers.

The Valley

Spread your fingers slightly with the outer finger running against her outer labia while the middle finger slides between pressing slightly inward.

Warming her up

Rub a finger between her outer and inner labia from her clit down halfway and back up, this is a good way to stimulate clit her without direct pressure.

V

Slide two fingers between her outer labia with her inner lips between your fingers pressing her clitoris between as if making a small piece sign.

The Hot Spot

Once she is warmed up a little place two fingers on clitoris and rub up and down, back and forth, or in a circular motion. Or flicker them quickly. Find out what motion works best for her.

Push the Button

Using one hand pull back the labia and clitoral hood and rub the clitoris with a finger from the other hand. This may be too much direct stimulation for some women while other women may enjoy it.

Bowling Ball

Slide one or two fingers into her vagina to stimulate the G spot while the thumb caresses the clitoris.

Two Hander

Work her clit with one hand while you finger her pussy with the other. This provides both internal and external stimulation.

The Pat

While most girls will not care for this some do. Gently give her a vulva a little pat. Not a smack unless she is into BDSM. The speed will depend on the girl.