Announce a marriage intent

You are fed up with how things are. No-one made any move against you yet.

So you decide to make your move. You announced your will to marry again.

You know that this was like kicking hive of bees. Entire court will be on the move, especially your family. They will try to stop you, or convince you to marry someone that suits their needs... and you look forward to their attempts.

Even should they fail, you can always make sure to choose an appropriate new spouse that will suit your needs.