You can't satisfy her in bed

She lets out a sigh, "If I'm being honest... sex is kinda boring. And I don't think it's for lack of trying." She kissed you on the cheek again.

"Well, if it's not something we're not trying, what is it?" You ask.

"I don't know. I think maybe it might be what you're working with, or what I'm working with," she said gesturing toward your and her naughty bits, "or maybe you are just too gentle and caring to explore the wild side of things. I've only recently started thinking about it, so I couldn't really put my finger to it." She said. "I don't want to upset you, I was doing some exploring on my own trying to find an answer but I haven't done anything outside of our bedroom." She pouted a bit, "I don't even know what I'd do if I had a chance laid out in front of me." She smiled again, holding your hand a little tighter.

You were perplexed, but you understood that she had her needs and that there wasn't anything wrong with you in her eyes. Feeling a bit sheepish, you bring up her contacts and texts, "Well, I should have just asked, but when you left your purse here earlier I did look through your text messages. I just want to know, who is Rachael?"

She seemed a little irritated, but didn't get super defensive about it. "Well, Rachael was supposed to be a name you'd ignore if you did go snooping though my phone, but it was a little childish of me. I was out with some friends a few weeks ago and met a guy named Taylor. He was really flirty and romantic and ended up coaxing my phone number from me. I deleted the earlier parts of our text conversation, but basically he's the reason why I've been excited lately. He's really naughty and doesn't beat around the bush. And from what he's told me... he's talented in more than one way. And the girls I know that he's been with have told me that he's really fun." She returned eye contact, looking a little relieved and waiting for your reaction.