Why not do both of those things?

So Ariana and I go downstairs to start eating birthday cake which is chocolate cake which is my favorite flavor of cake. So we walk into the kitchen only to see my family putting the candles into the cake in the kitchen when they notice us coming so my family tells me to sit in a chair so I can blow out the candles after making a wish. So I wait until they stop singing Happy Birthday to me to make my wish which is now that 'I wish that I have a long and happy marriage with Ariana Grande where she tells what to do and when to do it.' So I blow out my candles and everyone cheers for me while Ariana kisses me on the cheek where I touch my cheek wondering if just did that which she did because she is giggling at me.

Now while we are eating the cake people are starting to ask about the wedding and what our plans are for the wedding which makes me say "Maybe you should ask my parents since they orchestrated this whole Arranged Marriage thing with Ariana Grande even though I think my Best Man should be Sean, my best friend."

Ariana then speaks "Hey that's not fair I wanted my brother Frankie to be my Best Man."

"I promised Sean that I would make him my Best Man if I ever got married and he would do the same thing if he gets married so you can make your brother be either the Maid of Honor or he can be groomsmen along with my friends Kaleb and Justin as well as my brother Aaron."

"Okay than I want my brother Frankie to be my Maid of Honor even though it's weird and my bridesmaids are going to be Victoria Justice, Elizabeth Gilles, and Nicki Minaj."

"Wow that's interesting getting your co-stars from Victorious and a multiple time collaborator of yours to be bridesmaids at your wedding how interesting that is."

"Are you making fun of me because I will not tolerate that at all during this marriage."

"I am not making fun of you I just really found it interesting that your bridesmaids are people you have worked with in the past which is kind of sad to me to think that your friends are former co-workers."

"Okay Tori and I'm sorry that I got angry about what you said when you were just concerned about me like a good wife should be."

"Well we both finished our cake so how about we go upstairs to sleep while our family handles the planning of this wedding."

So we go upstairs into my bedroom so we can change into our pajamas so we can sleep in my bed in my room which is going to interesting to this everyday until we live in Los Angeles after the honeymoon.