Why not add both?

I look him in the eyes and nod. "That I am comfortable with. I assume you can just refuse the quest if you want to." I say selecting both him or better put them and their sister if I look at the screen.

Name: Robin

Surname: Naaktgeboren

Gender: Unknown

Age: 31

Level 1 (0 / 10 xp)

Class: None

Perks: None

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Gender: unknown

Gender: unknown

Robin is currently not happy with their body, the way they act. The moments they get to role-play in-game as a woman in the game allow them to feel safe and themselves. They are in a state of limbo regarding their gender. If their mental state regarding their gender changes, this will be updated.

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Name: Chantal

Surname: Naaktgeboren

Gender: female

Age: 29

Level 1 (0/ 10xp)

Class: None

Perks: None

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"Robin, so you are unsure about your gender, as well as being attracted to men." He nods. "Any cool ideas for quests for you and your sister?"

"Hmm, for me, you decide after I fall asleep under your blankets with you next to me. For Chantal, something that makes her call me, something to see if she can make up with mom and dad." They say before crawling into bed.

Robin will receive the following quest:

• Look at your messages with Pieter and review them.
• Talk about your feelings regarding him.
• Talk about your feelings surrounding your gender.

Reward: Pieter accepts and loves you.

Chantal will receive the following quest:

• Call Robin and talk about gender identity.
• Talk about Robin's love life.
• Discuss a way to see her at home.

Reward: Ambivalence of your parents regarding your sexuality.

Both of these quests should aid them in getting a start with the app. Both of them have rewards suited to Robin's wishes. Both of them allow me to get my bearings about their relationship and their reaction. These quests are just there to see what will work for all of us.