right to business

"ok lets get that thing off you",you reach around her neck and unlock her collar taking it off. Alyson is too baffled at first to say anything, but starts to say,"what are yo....",you raise a hand towards her face,"shhh!,remember im still in control, not a word unless i say so"."yes,sir" she says after a second of hesitation. you think for a second, should you try to get alyson to consent or should you take her the hard way