Ask her how she'd feel about sitting on your lap

You try to be both bold and cautious at the same time. "Hey Kayla, what would you do if I asked you to sit on my lap?"

She reddens again, saying, "I mean, I don't think Eve would like it. And you and I, we're friends, so I'm not really into you like that? But I mean I guess also men do have their urges and it's not like it hurts anyone..." She trails off.

You try to walk a fine line here, knowing if you push too far Eve will certainly hear about it. "So...if you were to sit on my lap, we can agree it's nothing really sexual between us? That I, as a man, have urges that need to be satisfied but it's not like we're hooking up or something?"

"Hmmm...I mean I'm not into it but I don't want to stop you from doing whatever. Male urges aren't something to be ignored after all..." she has a thoughtful look on her face. Thoughtful mixed with anxiety. "Eve probably wouldn't love it but I know she'd understand."