Observe for now

You watched the woman old enough to be your mother set down the tea set in a very elegant manner, causing the phrase 'Yamato Nadeshiko' to come to mind. While heavily romanticized to the extent of being mythical, the phrase epithomized personification of an ideal Japanese woman. Your Yamato Nadeshiko left the place after finishing setting the tea set, knowing very well that your grandfather and you were having a private conversation.

"Were you looking at Yasakani, John?"

"Just wondering whether she's my aunt or something, since you might set me with her,"

"It doesn't matter,"

"Sorry?" You asked back, not really understanding what he meant.

"If you're interested in sowing your heirs in your family members, I don't care, as long as they're healthy,"