Option: Normal Attire

You say back in bed, pondering what she should wear. Would it be something sexy that he might find enticing? If so, what would you pick?

It was easy to settle back into indecision. It was your goal, of course, to help your wife sleep with him. All the reasons which had motivated you at the kitchen table still held true. If you wanted her to be happy, it was the right decision.

Still, being so involved in the process made you feel…queasy. It would be so much easier if it was something you were not involved in. If you didn’t have to expend energy helping her do it. Out of sight, out of mind.{if Female = true}

You still felt the same way about men that you always had. The thought of one of them using your fragile little wife as some kind of sex toy rankled you. You didn’t want to think about a cock inside of her. You didn’t want to think about his gross hands running down her side.

Rationally, you knew it didn’t really matter. Sex with a man, sex with a woman, what was the difference?

It’s not like she’d be permanently tainted or something. It was only gross incels who worried that their girlfriend might be “ruined” somehow by that kind of thing. Right?{endif}

Ultimately, you never resolved the tension, at least not in a satisfactory way.

Instead, you suggested that she just go to her “date” in something that she’d normally wear. Maybe she could pick something nicer than normal, sure. However, there wasn’t any need, you claimed, for her to doll herself up for the encounter.

You listed a whole slate of rationales for this advice. She was already a pretty woman, she didn’t need to dress up slutty to be attractive. Besides, if she dressed too provocatively, or in a way he wouldn’t expect, it might backfire and spook him. It would be a mistake to come on too strongly, of course.

The most important reason was her own comfort. She was already going out on a limb, doing something like this outside the normal bounds of your marriage. She was going to feel awkward at the meetup anyway. Why push herself further outside her comfort zone by dressing in a way that she wouldn’t normally?

“Oh. Right. Hehe. I guess I didn’t really think about all that. I guess he would think it was pretty weird if I showed up wearing, I don’t know, something sexy. Thank you…”