Offer her a beer

You look at her and offer her a beer.

She takes a look at you, hesitates for a second, and then sit in the table, telling you how her day was also a pain, she stayed in the kitchen working the whole time and also Calvin just doesn't give her the same attention that he used to and spends his time drinking with his friends...

You ask more about it and it's like the dam of complains burst.

You listen her and make understanding noises, so she keeps talking and soon is taking another beer for herself. You two chat for a long time about problems and you feel like she's a friendly and hard-working woman, but she's frustrated at men in general and at all kinds of bullshit that women have to tolerate in a small town and not very happy in her marriage.

You ask about why she's still with Calvin and she gives you excuses about the kids and the value relationships and the consequences of divorce in a small town.
It's bullshit and you both know, so you tell her so, but she tells you that Calvin has his good days and he used to be a great man before the war

You nod, understanding, but tell her she should think about herself...

So you ask her if Calvin has affairs, she says no, hesitantly. You ask about it and she admits that Sweet Home is a strange town and that the country bumpkins have strange ideas and ways. You ask, like what, and she stays silent, so you change the subject.

You ask her if she had any affairs. She seems hesitant but admits that she had affairs before, but usually either being very discrete or with Calvin's approval. That surprises you a little, but you know you're close, so you ask her what is like... being discrete...

She blushes a little and you know you have her