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Immigrants to North America from countries with strict conduct in matters of sex must be astonished at what they discover . In homosexual matters more than any other . That thought was prompted by having sex with a Chinese man .

I'm including him as a voyeur 'though naiive is mainly what he was . Naiive because completely inexperienced . Not that he was young - I placed him in his thirties .

We came together in one of the side-paths off the central oval . From the beginning his behaviour and expression registered astonishment and interest and , intermittently , delight .

I'm sure he had never come accross a man dressed as a woman in broad daylight , and had no idea what to do with him/her/me . I had to all the leading .

I lifted my skirt to show him my underwear . Fascinated and astonished , but not doing anything . I closed on him and touched him through his pants . Wide-eyed with wonder . I undid them ( no objection indicated ) and drew his penis forth . I masturbated him for a minute ; he become erect so clearly things were moving in the right direction , but every move was mine and every response one of surprise . I lifted my skirt and placed his penis under my panties to have it make contact with mine .Finally when I had rolled a condom onto him and smeared my ass with oil , with my panties down and bending over a log did he show some initiative - hesitantly holding my hips as I screwed my ass back and forth onto him . The condom came off him . I had only brought one and anyway he was a bit limp . I did other things with him - put oil on his bare penis and masturbated him . I kissed him and he liked that . He kept his eyes on me throughout everything and did not seem to get bored . I ended it because neither of us seemed to reach a climax . I must have given him a lifetime of education in perversion in that afternoon .

All these waste ground haunts have in common that there is vegetation that provides cover to hide behind , and gives privacy for sex acts . Necessarily it also allows participants access , so the privacy is relative Being undisturbed in the embrace of another man is not guaranteed and rests on the delicacy of any third party who comes accross you . Some times men like to stay and watch two other men . I completely understand , and although I politely move on I would be aroused myself ( as one is when watching porn ) by watching them .

Certainly I am aroused by a man watching another man fucking me , and if a third party comes accross us will tell my ' husband ' ( who will likely be gun-shy of any witnessing ) ' it's OK he just wants to watch .'

For me , being watched is erotic partly beause I am thinking an observer who sees that my servicing a man is making that man ejaculate may become eager in turn - and may want to participate .

Which could take the form of putting his cock in my mouth , or just waiting till the first guy is finished when the sight of semen dribbling down from my buttocks would promise a slippery pleasure for him - with my permission ( correctly assumed to be granted ). - This has happened to me .

I and a guy were masturbating each other when we became the centre of attention - first from one man , then a second appeared . Exchanges became confusing . I remember hearing either " he wants to fuck you " or " he wants to be fucked " - I think the second , as my first partner was replaced by someone penis out who got me to bend over a stump . As I was being fucked ( not very efficiently - advice was being given by more than one participant ) I did not suck anyone , but I did masturbate someone else and I was aware of a second penis being masturbated close-up to my face . It was all very messy , but very exciting . It broke up when someone gave an alarm ( I think over yet another man ! ) .