Confront Rebeccah's mother

This is simply too much and it's gone too far. You are not going to wear panties, and you are not going to wear a nighty to bed.

You go down the stairs and find Rebeccah and her mother sitting on the couch and they both seem startled to see you so soon.

"Sweet boy, pull down your waist band to show me that you are wearing underpants," says Rebeccah's mother.

You shake your head.

"I'm sorry, Mommy, but I am not going to wear girl's underwear and I'm not wearing a nighty to bed. I will be happy to wear boy's underwear and pajamas if you take me shopping." you say, trying to sound resolute.

"I will have to borrow the money, though," you add, far less confidently.

A long silence follows, until Rebeccah's mother finally speaks.

"I see that you have decided to be willful," she says, sounding very disappointed.

"Here are your choices: You can either go back upstairs and pack your clothes and leave right away, or you can choose to stay and live by my rules. If you choose to stay, you will be punished for being willful."

"I don't have money for a return flight," you say meekly. "Also, I want to marry Rebeccah. I love her!"

"Your lack of planning and lack of resources are not my problem, young man," says Rebeccah's mother, sternly.

You hang your head. You can't give up on Rebeccah.

"What is the punishment?" you ask in resignation.

"A bare bottom spanking," Rebeccah's mother responds decisively. You hear Rebeccah give a small gasp.