You've learned your lesson.

You're going to ghost Brad, and Jake's in for a reckoning. If he wants to keep you, he's going to have to take your relationship seriously.

You're going to cut every unnecessary expense, and focus on two things. First, you're going to make sure you're top player at your company. It'll take what it will take, but anyone in your path will be in trouble. Second, you'll take the summer off next year. You're going on a cruise around the world. You're not sure exactly where, and you'll have to arrange a lot of things, but Jake needs to get shaken out of this wimpish mood he's let himself get into. Third, he's going on a regimen of sports. He's going to exercise. He's going to run, and swim, and learn himself some damn self-defence. You'll push him all along if you need to, because you've had it.

If your boyfriend isn't the strong guy you want him to be, you're not going to dump him. You're going to hold him to the fires of the furnace of your wrath and turn the weak ore he is in the strongest steel you can make.