Text Bob on way for Pizza

Bob wasn't always so boring and out of shape. Before we married, but while we were dating, I cheated on Bob. Truth be told several times with a few different guys. Bob found out about one back then but of course I denied denied denied. I think deep down Bob knew but it was easier to believe me. I told Bob it was true that I had gone on a cruise with an ex but it was only because he got tickets long before I had even met him. I told Bob that nothing happened only as friends. It was shortly after that our sex life slowed and we weren't even married yet. I thought maybe if I came clean about what happened with that guy either Bob would be so upset it would end our marriage or maybe he would be at peace knowing the truth so I texted Bob and asked if I did something in my past would you want to know or would you prefer to leave the past in the past?