Tell her you'd never agree to that.

"There's no way I'd let you do that to me." You say. "And I don't believe for one second that your girlfriend has any way to me."

"We'll see." She takes out her phone and calls someone. "Hi Tanya.... He didn't go for it.... Yeah we are going to have to do it the hard way."

You spend the next few hours fuming about the revelation and wondering what to do next. You probably need to speak to a lawyer.

The doorbell rings and you hear Julie answer it. "Thankyou for coming so quickly. I'll show you where he is.

The door opens, revealing two large police officers. From behind them, Julie says. "It's okay Sweetie. These men just want to take you somewhere you can get help."

"Please come with us sir." one of the officers says sternly.