SOUNDS LIKE YOU MIGHT HAVE...

"ANORGASMIA which is a delayed, infrequent, or absence/inability to be brought to the point of having an orgasm OR significantly less-intense orgasms after sexual arousal and adequate sexual stimulation": "The causes can range from relationship or intimacy issues, cultural factors, physical or medical conditions, and medications", the last two getting Selena's attention since she has Lupus, is on medication for it. "Treatments can include education about sexual stimulation, sexual enhancement devices, AND HYPNOTHERAPY Selena", "well I've tried the first two, didn't help so the 'HYPNOTHERAPY' route is my last resort, LETS DO IT...the hypnotherapy I mean 'not actually 'DOING IT WITH'....stopping.