Reconsider your life

After some quick detective work you start to recall your life as a woman. While the details are different the broad outline is the same. You started at university but dropped out shortly afterwards telling your mothers you need to "find your calling". Not only did you lie to them but also yourself. In reality you are working just hard enough to waste time on hobbies that you're not even taking particularly seriously. Since then your younger sister has moved into your apartment while she studies to become a biochemist. You're proud of her achievements but they are a continuous reminder of your failings.

Common sense says that your first priority ought to be finding a real job, go back to University with your sister or maybe make something out of your interests in Fantasy and Heavy Metal.

On the other hand you were given this new life by a lust spirit, so getting laid more frequently is also a priority. At the very least you could aim to be the world's most accomplished masturbator! More seriously though the most obvious routes are to either work up the courage to get involved with one of the ruffians you meet at Metal concerts or settle for one of the nerds in your RPG group.