Reassure her it's okay.

"Baby, baby, it's OK," you tell her. "I know about Keith, Tyrell, and Marcel."

"Y...you do?" she asks.

"Yes. I know it must be hard to be married to an old guy like me when you're still so young and youthful. I know we haven't had sex in weeks, and I haven't been a very good lover to you."

Janessa stands there, listening to you.

"Baby, you're not really going out with your friends tonight. Are you?"

She shakes her head no.

"You were planning on meeting one of these guys then?"

She nods.

"Which one?" you ask.

"I...I wasn't sure yet. They're all so different and want to meet me tonight." She looks at you, "Are you sure you're OK with this??"