He is not offended, and they talk about how bad sub shaming is

"It's all right. I get what you wanted to say, and I agree with you. I am indeed not like most of the male population, and I indeed like naughty things better than the average too. But I wouldn't call myself a manslut. More like a slutty guy, who likes to dom people. I like to be on the giving side. Don't get me wrong, I like to receive too, but I don't like when the situation is at least not partially under my control too." John answered them. They looked at him and realized he was quite confident, and not ashamed about his interests.

"I think I get it." Emma said and grinned a little. "So, you like to make the woman, you date, submissive and obedient, and let them suck your cock whenever you want. Am I right? Did you make Jenny into your little cockslut?" Emma asked John.

"Well, I would like to say that she is MY girlfriend and not just MY cockslut. But yes, I'm trying to dom her. I love the idea of being a dom and having a sub. It's always such an erotic feeling, when a girl willingly submits to you, and wants to please you. It's a rush when you are the one who dominates the other. But it's best, when your partner actively encourages your dominant behavior, through her talk and actions. It's the moment when you realize, that your partner wants to submit, and please you. She wants to obey you, and she wants you to order her around. It's also the best, when you can take full control over her body, and make her do whatever you want. It's a moment when you can make your partner experience pleasure, which she can never experience by herself, and you both know that it's because of you, that she is going on a trip to cloud nine. It's a feeling, I will never get tired of." John said, as he recalled his previous experiences, and felt a warm wave in his chest. He liked to share his experience with others, especially if they were open to listening to him.

"Wow, that's interesting. So, you like to be the dominant and to make your partner submit to you, and do anything you want. Do you like to humiliate them too? And how much are you into dirty talk? What are your kinks?" Emma asked John. She was curious because she rarely meet a guy, who likes to be a dom and to be the one, who gets to feel dominant. She was a submissive herself, and she had a light cuckquean kink too. She liked the idea of losing a girlfriend to a man, so it interested her how the dominant side thinks about a relationship like that.

"Sure, I like to humiliate them, but only as far as they want it. But Jenny is a really open-minded, and naughty girl, so she especially asked me to not hold back. So I humiliate her, and not just in a regular way, where I call them sluts, whores, and stuff like that. I mean, I like to **** and dehumanize her and tell her, how pathetic and worthless she is. How she is my cockslut, and that I will fuck her, whenever I want, and treat her like a toy or an object, which I can use for my pleasure. And I also love to tell her, that she is only good for sucking cock, and being my plaything. I love to make her **** herself, and make her admit to me, that her real desire is to suck my dick and get used by me. That she loves to serve me and follow my orders. She cums the hardest when I'm the meanest to her. I also love to **** her appearance and remind her, that she is just a dirty little slut. The best is when I can make her cum on command when I **** her and she only begs for more. But I would never hurt her physically. So not punch and **** until my partner passes out. Only light slaps." John answered Emma.

"Wow, that's hot. So, I see. You are a real dom, with a very dominant attitude. It's interesting because I'm also a submissive. And Susi is only a switch, so I was never able to talk with someone, who is a dom like you, John." Emma said, with lust in her eyes. She reached down to her crotch and noticed that she started to get wet. She was surprised because it's rare for her to get horny from just listening to some guy talk. She started to imagine how hard would John fuck Susan, and he probably wouldn't even mind her, while she would just watch her girlfriend get dicked, and feel the pleasure she could never give her." And how big are you?" She just said it out, without thinking.

"Oh my god, Emma! How dare you ask him something like that? Also, I'm here too, don't look him with those eyes, you little slut." Susan screamed and blushed a little. She realized that this conversation got a little bit too deep, and she was also quite embarrassed because she was just about to ask the same thing.

"Yeah, sorry John. I really shouldn't have asked you that. I just got a little bit horny, and my curiosity took the best of me. I am a little submissive, and sometimes it just takes me over, and I want to know." Emma apologized to John and blushed a little too.

"Ohh, don't worry. I'm not mad, and I understand your curiosity. And well, I think there is no harm if we all talk about our sexual interests and fantasies, or at least some of them. And if you want to know, my member is 4 inches when soft and a solid 9 inches when erect. So I can understand why you were a little horny. It's a nice size, and women seem to like it. But that's enough talk about my cock. You know what I mean." John answered them. He liked to talk about his penis, and how much women like it. He had a few private encounters with Jenny, but they only get to a handjob, before John realized, that the woman wants to either own him or just wants him for his looks. So he never got into a serious relationship with them.

"Wow, ok. That's pretty big. And I know you are right. It's always great to talk about our fantasies and share them. Especially when they are the same." Susi said and blushed a little bit. She wasn't a prude, but she was a little shy about sex.

"Yeah, John. You are right. I wish that more guys would understand that it's important to talk about things like that, and not be ashamed by it. I wish that guys would see that women want their partners to have fun too, and not just about their pleasure. It's also important, that men can be themselves, and not just pretend to be something they aren't, because they are worried about their image, and others' opinions. And a good time can only be made sure for both parties if they voice their wishes. It's a sad fact, that men usually tell us what they want, but still complain about it, when we voice our own opinions. It's not always an easy topic, but I think it's worth the try." Suki said and sighed a little. "I always tried to act that way, because I think that it is the fair way to treat your partner, but look where it led me. I'm still a virgin, without a boyfriend, while girls who deceive and gaslight boys, and act all mommy-like are fucking them left and right." Suki sighed again and thought about her life. "Maybe I also should take the bi-route, so at least I can get another girl to finger me to orgasm, so at least, it's someone else's finger that gets me off. Fuck, why do I always have to be the one, who thinks about the right thing? Why can't men understand, that we are not perfect, but still worth it? What does a sub girl has to do to find a boyfriend, and get what she needs, without paying a professional dom? I will never be that hopeless to do that." Suki looked down and sighed again. She always tries to stay positive, but sometimes she wonders, if it's worth it, to be the one, who makes the right decisions and stays true to herself.

"I tried to act all dominant like, and let's be equal with a guy once, who was in a men's rights movement, but I couldn't always act around him. I tried, but after a few months, I grow tired of it, because I could never relax, and be myself around him. So I decided to tell him, that he could sometimes lead too, and show me how he wants to do things, instead of only getting milked by me, or eating my pussy. And do you guys know what he said, when I said that I won't always be able to be the dommy-mommy he wants me to be? He said 'What I want is someone who can guide me with care, as an equal. But I don't need a cowardly pervert maso'! Can you believe that?! Like, really?! Do you know, how many girls have been hurt by those kinds of guys? I mean, fuck. I was just trying to have a normal relationship, where I can be myself, and he was so fucking rude. I'm done with trying to act dominant, and being someone I'm not." Suki sighed again and felt anger inside of her. Then she took a big breath and calmed herself down.

"So that's how our little friend group got together. We joked about it, and called ourselves once the 'Subby Female Protectorate.' Since then Susi and Emma realized they have a thing for each other and started to dom each other in turns. And I'm still searching for my Daddy in shining horse, who can finally take me how I want and deserve. Until then, I sometimes play my old role and make a guy eat me out, in exchange for milking him, when I get really lonely. So yeah, that's our story." Suki sighed one last time and leaned back against the chair. She was tired, but happy that she told the others about her struggle.

"You never mentioned your story before, or at least not for me. I'm sorry Suki, and I hope that you also find someone like John soon." Jenny said and hugged her. She knew that Suki has always struggled, and it made her sad because she liked the girl a lot. She could understand Suki's struggle because she also was submissive herself.

"It's ok. It's not something I usually tell people about. I guess I just wanted to open up a little bit, and not always stay in a positive mood. I will tell you if I ever need help with something, ok?" Suki answered Jenny and hugged her back.

"Yeah, of course, Suki. And we are here for you if you ever need to talk to us." Susan said and gave Suki a warm smile.