Maybe a telepath?

"Jean said just coming in contact with my mind had the effect of causing her to want to tear my clothes off, but it seemed like she had more control then those with skin contact. I was able to close my mind and she seemed to return to normal. So maybe some one with telepathic might help to give me control easier."

" Also, could it be someone one female. Not to be rude sir, but if this gets out of control... I am just not interested in a man being effected. I know it's not politically correct, but it's how I feel." commented Ben as he tried to figure things out.

"We have quite a few female telepaths, including two who you have met. Betsy, codenamed Psylocke, and Jean, codename Phoenix are both telepaths. We also have a college of mine by the Name of Emma Frost, who takes the name of the White Queen from a previous organization from which she has resigned."

"This is my theory, Mr. Goldenwry. My thoughts are that you are a form of Empath. You have the ability to control emotions with your mind, given what you and Jean have said. In time you might control other feelings and even sense them in others. Jean and Betsy are both students and this might help teach them as well to control their mental powers. Emma is more experienced with mental powers and She might help you retain control better."

"We might also want to use one of the few female Empaths or Mind Controllers in our school as well, to test your and their powers."

"I understand your feelings, and give you my permission to work with only females if it makes you feel better. As long as you retain tolerance for homosexuals and understanding for them. After all, they are as human as you or I. Mutants themselves face prejudice like the gay community, and I would perfer we not reciprocate."

"So have you made a decision, Ben?" said Xavier as he waited for Ben's choice.