All in on femdom

"I didn't get much sleep last night, thinking about us," Mary begins.

"I would never have known. You look great!" you reply, hopefully.

"I'm not dumping you," Mary replies. "I just had a lot to think about. I'm sure you can understand." You can. "And I think I know what I want. And maybe I'll change my mind later, but this is what I want for now."

"Okay," you reply, trying to be as supportive as you can.

"We're not going to have sex." Your heart sinks. "I've always dreamed of losing my virginity to a cute guy with a big cock, and you're only one of those things. Which is okay!" she quickly reassures you. "Last night I could have gone either way, but now I'm sure. I don't want my first time to hurt, but I want to feel something."

That seems fair. She continues. "You're not going to be the one to take my virginity. Maybe we can have sex after I lose it to someone else, or maybe I should save myself for 'the one'. Either way, we can still do everything else together, but I have to be in control. I'll be Mistress and you'll be ****. That way I know that I'll always be satisfied, and I'll make sure that you're happy, too. Can you be okay with that?"

Man, what a mind fuck! This could lead so many different ways. You could insist that she fucks someone else so that you can have sloppy seconds, or you can keep her to yourself but never fuck her.