A slow beginning...

We met for coffee...

Then for lunch...

More coffee...

And more...

Grooming takes time. I found out her life story. She was gorgeous, confident, and from the looks of it, sexually vanilla. I was happy to bide my time - I enjoy the chase. We built up our friendship - I earned her trust, she started to open up me personally, but nothing sexual. I didn't push it. She was fun to be around. I still had not met her husband, but I had seen a photo of him - her might be a bonus - definitely a beta make in my book. We would find out in time.

After a while I invited her over to our house for a Thursday night. Wine and gossip. We made sure Bob was passing briefly - they said hi and then her wandered out. She looked at him appreciatively, but with no interest, being all loved up. We carried on as normal.

In the background Bob and I plotted our plan.