Refuse.

"No thank you, Mrs. Anderson," you say. "I'm determined to beat this."

"Well, suit yourself. By the way, Mr. Anderson said that he has offered you the services of the domestic staff, but you haven't availed yourself of them yet. Would you like me to send Molly up to you? Mr. Anderson and Ethan both speak very highly of her. I know my husband hasn't serviced her in a while, so she should be ready and willing for you. Or it might even be nice for you to talk to a girl close to your own age."