Case Study 1: Happily Ever After

In 1998, a year into their marriage, Janine White made a conscious decision to encourage her husband's submissive, effeminate sides. Though she didn't know it at the time, her plans would turn him into a docile, placid sissy with a strong desire to serve both her and her black lovers. Here she explains how she did it.

JANINE WHITE

"It began fairly innocently really - i got him to wear my panties to work one day. When he got home he didn't take them off and I began laying them out for him every day. It sounds like a small thing, but it's definitely how it started. Around that time I stopped having sex with him unless there was a special reason, though I continued to let him go down on me and pleasure me with toys. Then I promised I'd let him fuck me every week if he wore a chastity belt in between. Let's just say it tapered off fairly quickly."

Alex White (SISSY)

"Four times total it was... i last had penetrative sex on the 6th of june, 1998. So just over 22 years. Most weeks she would give me a hand job, usually while talking dirty to me."

JANINE WHITE

"The first time I talked to my husband about big black cock, i was very slowly jerking him off after nearly three weeks locked. I think he had some natural affinity for the topic, but I could have been talking about margerine and he still would have cum. Whatever, I was in control of his orgasms, and from then on I only ever let him cum thinking about big black cocks."

And how long was it before you popped the question?

"About six months, I think. That's when the need got really pressing, because he'd been laid off which made it very difficult for me to meet my bull without Alex knowing. I was edging his cock and i told him that i'd met a black man and asked if i should invite him over to play. Alex said yes... then i locked him back up without release so he wouldn't change his mind. "

ALEX

When did your wife reveal she'd been having an affair?

"The day I met Sir Marcus. He'd been in the house about twenty minutes... my wife unzipped his pants and suggested kindly but firmly that i should help him get hard. With my mouth. I remember her stroking my hair, calling me a good boy as i sucked him. Then she said something like "It's ok, it's ok, just keep sucking to tell me you're grateful, that you forgive me, that you're totally accepting of this moment. Marcus and I have been having sex for a long time... over a year. That's why I stopped fucking you. That's it. Keep sucking, show him you know your place."

That must have been a very intense moment for you?

"I felt all the rage and jealousy rise up in me... but it just melted away next to Marcus's strength, his power. There was no sense in fighting it. I just had to accept, and be glad of it."

JANINE

How has your relationship changed since that moment? Over 20 years has it become better, worse?

"We have three wonderful children together. Two boys from Marcus and a girl from Alex in a test tube. She'll be making Alex a granddad soon, and we _think _we have Marcus to thank for that. He's always doing little things like that... marking his territory almost. It's exciting, I think, to know that even after 22 years, the man in my life can still find ways to exert dominance over our sissy."