Ask him directly in an indirect way

A little lightbulb flips on in my brain, giving me one hell of an idea. As I reach into my wallet once more, I grabbed more money, and then one of my business cards. With a vigorous throw, I make sure all of it lands on his stage. I wonder if any of the other girls have a sharp enough eye to see what I've done. Not long after, his dance comes to an end. As he collects his earnings, the DJ states "Give it up for Tarzan one last time ladies."

We all clap as he waves to us. Once he's off the stage, the DJ then says "Tonight, we have a special guest with us. The lovely Patrica is about to marry her fiancee and has come here to celebrate. We here at the Hunk Haven feel it's only appropriate to help her celebrate with some free shots at the bar as we get your next surprise ready."

The group rushes to the bar, where the barman's already pouring the drinks. We all toast, before downing the shots of vodka, which hits me like a hammer. Once done, I notice in the corner of my eye, a tall stud walk over to us, unfortunately wearing modest clothing. With a smile, he says "So where's the lady of the hour?"

"Right here." Patrica says.

"Would you like to come with me?"

"Ohh, absolutely."

The man hands Patrica a blindfold, so I look to Meghan, who's wearing the world's biggest grin. I'm sure she has something in mind for our soon-to-be-married friend, and I can't wait to see what it is.