Allow him to bathe first...

"It would fine by me if you went first Roland" you tell him... He looks at you in a tiny amount of disbelief... "Are you sure my lady? I don't mind waiting for you..." He says to you. "No Sir Roland, I insist. After all, losing can build up much more of a sweat then a win" you tell him with a cocky grin. He smiles and laughs at your jest. "If you insist my lady, then of course" He heads for the baths and disappears around the corner...