You live in the North

Your hold in located south of Karhold, apperently your great-great-grandfather was a Stark. More of Karstark blood in you though. You don't know how to feel about that. Your realm is not big but enough to be of some importance even to the Starks.
Your people live of the sea and woods. Youe soliders are more of a decoration as you rearly get any bandits in your parts. Wars were not hard on your hold but last war left you allmost without any of the soliders.
Your father and older brothers died in Robs Starks campaing, your mother died when you were younger, you have two sisters one older by 2 years and younger one bearly of age 5.
As you read trough the book you see you have lots of other relatives living some near some far but all are distant relatives, none of them came when your mother died. Had other buisnes if you recal corectly. That gives you a pause "if you recal corectly"? Seems you are somehow gaining memoreis of this land.
Longer you read more is filling your head which gives you quite the headache. As you finaly lover your book you notice it has goten quite late and that you are starving. As you walk to the kitchen you see your commander running towards you. When he sees you he slowes down but keeps a fast walking pace. Older man with quite a few scars on his face, never did tell you how he got them.
"Your lordship, we have need of you in the courtyard", he starts. "Is it urgent", you ask him "I was just on my way to the kitchen". "Apologies sire but it is, you are needed now." You go with him to the courtyard, looks like food will have to wait.