Get Mary laid

"I can live with all of that, Mary. You're worth whatever I have to do to be with you." Mary smiles. "I'm totally fine with the femdom stuff. For you, I can do that."

Mary seems happy. Okay, that's the first hurdle cleared.

"Vaginal sex is really important to me, so if you have to lose your virginity to someone else so that we can have sex, I can live with that."

"Okay," Mary replies happily. "But you understand that I'm not just going to have a one-night stand with someone, right? I wouldn't do that if I was single, and I certainly won't do that while I'm in a relationship. If you want me to have sex with another man, you have to be a part of it."

"I what?" you respond, taken aback.

"I'm not a slut! I'm not going to fuck a stranger. If you want me to lose my virginity to someone else, then it has to be a loving part of my relationship with you. You have to be there to cuddle with me afterwards so that my first time will be special. It would be sex with you by proxy. It wouldn't be him instead of you; it would be him acting on your behalf, giving me what you can't."

"So..." you begin, working out what she saying. "You want me to be a cuckold."

"Exactly," she replies.

Maybe you're not that much better off with Mary than you were with Kay.