Encourage her

Andrea

"I don’t think you should think about it that way. You are a strong, independent, sexually active woman. Why can’t you have a one-night stand or two from time to time? As long as you use protection, I see nothing wrong with having a good time. Just make sure either he uses a condom or you take the pill. As for the guy who smiles at you, try to think about it this way: You put that smile on his face. Every time he sees you, he thinks about you."

Sandra

"I haven’t thought about it that way.. But what if he talks to others about that night and I become the college slut?"

Andrea

"So your fellow students will talk about it for what, maybe two-three days then it is old news. And you only had sex with one person; I think you’re pretty safe. After all, there are people who have done a lot worse than an innocent one-night stand.."

Sandra

"How was your college days? Did you have many one-night stands?"

Andrea

"That question is a bit too personal for me. However, I will say this: You have done nothing wrong."

Sandra

"Thanks for being honest."

Andrea

"No problem. Do you want to come back next week and talk some more?"

Sandra

"Sure. If I haven’t found a new one-night stand, that is.."