Ask her siblings for help.

The benefit of having a large family is that you have many people to ask for help. Her brothers, from eldest to youngest are Berk, Teph, Jon, and Arith. They are ten years, six years, two years older and 3 years younger than Tovi, respectively. Tilli, Sara, and Jayda are her sisters, eight years, four years, and a year younger respectively.

The age difference with the oldest two is wide enough that they were almost parent figures. Each have their own children and are working on producing more. Despite the large gap in age, Tovi felt close to Tilli. Most of what Tovi knew was learned from her. However, as far as disobeying father and mother, Tilli was the most timid. She would be more than happy to listen to Tovi complain but unlikely to act upon it.

Teph merely ignored his sister, spending most of his time with work or standing in a daze. He was all work and no play, which afforded little affection for his little sister. Although he had been married for several years, Teph had only one child, a girl whom he spent little time with.

Sara, Jon, and Jayda are the siblings closest to Tovi's age. Sara and Jon are both newly weds and gloat to Tovi about their sexual exploits. Jon has a toddler and another on the way. He is caught on a regular basis copulating in the open. No manner of telling off dissuades him from the act. Tovi knows that he gets a thrill out of it. Sara is happily with child for the first time. She had been seriously depressed the past couple of years but this winter she skipped her cycle. Now she is all smiles and perkier than her swollen tits and belly. Jayda is Tovi's little twin. Whatever Tovi does, Jayda is right there helping. She is a polite and grateful little sister. She would be the easiest to convince in helping out.

Arith is a classic teen. Everything he does is right, even if wrong. He knows everything and has an opinion on every topic. Needless to say, he is a pain in the ass. But if Tovi can get him on her side, he could be a huge help. Plus, as the youngest, he is allowed certain liberties and freedom that the others can't take. Favoritism sucks.